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[quote=Anonymous][quote][quote][quote][quote][quote]YES. I'm sexually bored with my husband even though the sex can be good. I just am not interested. Want a new partner.
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This is the truth. My husband is good in bed and knows how to get me off, but I crave new and exciting. It monogamy that's the problem[/quote]

I am surprised by these three posters. I have a hard time believing they are really women. I have never heard a girlfriend say anything like this. Ever. Some of my friends say that they love their husbands but aren't really that interested in sex anymore, but I have never heard them say they don't want to have sex with their husband but crave sex with other men.[/quote]

Yeah. None of my friends have expressed that interest verbally either. Frankly, it sounds very slutty. I am not friends with whores though. Nobody condones affairs or cheating.
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Your friends just wont admit it. My DH is the ne who killed our bedroom. Even if he didnt I woudl still be bored. Every single divorced woman I know wasn't have much sex at with spouse and after separation, their drive sky rocketed. Women do get bored faster than men. Men like convenience.[/quote]

1+.  And also "huh??" to the previous PP.  The waning of women's [i]partner-specific[/i] sexual desire in long-term monogamous relationships has been like the most studied phenomena in the last decades wrt behavioral science.  No desire for partner, but no loss in libido overall: basically a cliche.  That doesn't mean the woman would have an affair, or even seriously want one, but again, hardly a new idea![/quote]

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