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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd say stick with one because the reasons you listed are pretty weak---a[b]s you said it is unlikely that your kids would be super close because of the age gap (yes, I know there are exceptions DCUM but the majority of kids with 5+ years apart are like this until they are adults)[/b]. And its a bit hard with COVID right now, but eventually you could always seek out volunteering that involves caring for babies for a bit to get your fix. For the record, when these types of questions get asked I generally vote for having another, but with the way you worded and listed everything I think you are leaning towards an only. [/quote] This is a ridiculous statement, kids can be close in a million different ways. You can also say that the majority of kids who are close in age fight non-stop until they are adults. OP age gap has nothing to do with how close your kids will be in the future and should not be a factor in your decision-making process.[/quote]
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