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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the real issue is entitlement. It's not that your parents didn't prepare you for life. Who is ever really prepared for life? It's unpredictable, and the world changes between generations. Everyone struggles in adulthood. EVERYONE.

The problem is when you are surprised by this, or somehow believe you should be exempt from struggle because of your background or inherent wonderfulness. I think it's hard for people to figure out the balance between understanding everyone has value and deserves basic respect and kindness, and also no one is entitled to deference or special treatment. I encounter a lot of people from privileged backgrounds who react very negatively to the idea that they might not be singled out for *special* treatment, whether it's getting the best service at a restaurant or getting the plum assignments at work or being doted on by everyone on their birthday. It's really hard to deal with people like this because they will view normal, respectful treatment as a slight.

OP, if you are struggling with this, [b]I think you need to spend more time with a broader variety of people. If you grew up, went through school, and work and socialize primarily with privileged people, it warps your idea of what it is to be a person in the world. Try spending more time around less privileged people, and learning that you aren't unique or special just because your family had resources. Learn how other people live -- happily! -- without fancy things or money from their parents or whatever. You have the muscles; they've just atrophied because you've never had to use them.[/b][/quote]

Yes! This!  Great post. [/quote]

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