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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make a ton of money. A fair amount of women would be willing to do the bulk of of the child/household work, so long as you make plenty to provide a good lifestyle and house help when she needs/wants it, since you aren’t willing to pitch in. She will also want to make sure, in the event of divorce, that her “half” will be still be a lot and keep her comfortable , since she pretty much gave up a career and even if she goes back to work, so won’t make nearly what she could have or once did.[/quote] OP here. I will be head of the finances but she will have full access to it. My ex worked a non-profit job and didn’t make much. We lived together for a year and she had full access to our joint account. I have no problem making sure the women is well taken care of in the event of a divorce. I’m just not willing to give up half of what I worked for and earned to her. [/quote] Imagine how hard have worked for an earned to get ahead. Now stop working completely tomorrow, completely drop your career. Do nothing but raise kids and housekeeping for 10 hrs. Then try and pick back up that awesome career you once had. Half your old work contacts are probably dead by now. [/quote]
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