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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry, OP. It's natural to feel bitter in such a situation. All the old people I know have behaved in the same way! Distance makes the heart grow fonder, or something silly like that. My MIL, who is (or was) a very kind and intelligent person, sees no value in her older son's DAILY care-giving, and declared she wanted to settle more inheritance on my husband, who lives thousands of miles away and can only help remotely (he manages some aspects of her finances). I am mortified and pray the rest of the family doesn't resent us... I actually told my MIL several times that I would prefer if she could distribute her money in a way that did not favor my husband, but she insists. I don't get it. [/quote]
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