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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s because the things that are important to you are not important to him. He doesn’t care about play dates, birthday parties, or the PTA.  [b]If your kids are happy and healthy, what’s the issue?[/b]

Women create so much extra work for themselves. I’m a mom that works outside the home, but if I stayed home I’d never do any of that stuff. Trying to make friends with people I do t care about sounds like hell. How important is this stuff that you are so worked up over it?[/quote]

Are you kidding me??? The issue is that she’s super stressed and has to outsource the SAHP work that her husband refuses to do. She has to manage and pay for a full time nanny because her husband can’t handle taking care of their children. Yes, the children are okay — Because this lady is doing everything, and outsourcing what she can’t do. Her husband contributes nothing. Most people would not be okay with this setup.

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OP - yes this is exactly the issue. 
Also we’ll agree that DS is going to do an activity, we’ll sign him up and pay for the season 
Then DS will decide he no longer likes baseball so DH will use that as an excuse not to take him

The other parents text me for the play dates, the teachers call me first if there’s an issue. 
He doesn’t make it known that he’s the full time parent, and this has been going on for three years [/quote]

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