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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, as you had to give a 3” range, I’m thinking you have your own insecurities about height. You are what you are - own it.

Now, as for your GF, I’ll cut her loose now. If she doesn’t find you hot and sexy now, then it’s really going to become an issue later as you both age. You obviously have things that make you attractive, which I’m guessing are more financial in nature, but life is a long hard place and only having that in common is going to wear thin in time unless you both understand that your relationship will be transactional like that (which, FWIW, is what some relationships are like and there is nothing wrong with that as long as both of you understand that).

OP, there is a lid for every pot. Really. There is someone out there that won’t care about your height, won’t have a mother involved so much in their life that she can comment on it and have it matter, and who will think you’re the best thing since sliced bread. Don’t sell yourself *ahem* short. Dating is hard on everyone, and it may feel hard to put yourself out there, but you’re still young and can have a partner that really thinks you’re all around amazing - your height won’t be a qualification/ caveat. [/quote]

Marry someone shorter than you.  That is what FIL did. [/quote]

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