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[quote=Anonymous]BTDT. This isn't an MIL problem. It is a DH problem. Your DH is unwilling to hold his mother accountable for her unacceptable behavior. As a PP noted, therapy can really help with this. His reactions have been shaped since infancy and her behaviors are his 'normal'. It's not a 'normal' you're willing to accept. If he's unwilling to do therapy or if it's not successful, you should continue with individual therapy to help you learn how to respond and to figure out what you want to do. I, too, had an IL problem (Something was wrong with me because they're perfect and everyone loves them!). Therapy really helped us but DH still struggled. He made good effort so I went along. It wasn't until after they were dead that he finally acknowledged they were messed up. The longer they're gone, the more clear it is to him. [/quote]
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