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Reply to "I just learned about tribe gaslighting and more people should know about it!"
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[quote=Anonymous]I guess I would just say it’s not your coworkers’ job to validate your experiences. GO TO HR or your boss’ boss or whatever. Or leave the organization if nothing is done. It’s just not gaslighting if your coworkers, who also have their own and different experiences, don’t see/hear what you’re seeing or hearing, or think you’re blowing something out of proportion when you think it’s valid. It’s just not their job. I say this as someone who worked on a lot of internal matters and a LOT of it was people being uniquely sensitive, or airing personal grievances with managers to coworkers who then felt stuck in the middle. I think that is inappropriate. [/quote]
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