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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, divorcing a narcissist is the most difficult but rewarding thing you will ever do. I divorced mine when our child was 10 months old. She is now 9 and we are still in court over custody issues. He continues to try to undermine me despite being remarried and having more children. I at times feel like you do but then I remind myself I never have to live with him again, I never have to feel anxious stepping into my own home and I never have to have any adult male have a tantrum for no reason while I watch helplessly. I am also providing my child with a safe and supportive household 75 percent of the time. She does have to be exposed to him on weekend visits but as she gets older she has become more resistant to going and that's why we are back in court. Very soon if his narcissism continues unabated I'm sure she will refuse to go and no one can force her not even the court. [/quote]

How sad for your child that you don't want her to have a relationship with her Dad.  She will refuse to go because you encourage it and are a selfish person.  A court can hold parents in contempt but rarely do.  And Mom's complain when men give up?  You are the reason why.  Stop taking his money and have his rights terminated.[/quote]

because the only empathy you can show for my 9 year old daughter is to assume her mom is the problem and not her father’s behavior. Also assuming this man pays mega child support. I pay 95 percent of my child’s expenses. I work in child welfare and I can tell you removing children from the most abusive homes can be difficult. No matter how abusive the parent the child often clings to that parent because it’s all they know. If a child is consistently refusing to see a parent they need to be listened to.[/quote]

I highly doubt you work in child welfare based off this post and kids can be manipulated by a parent and if you worked in child welfare you'd know that.[/quote]

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