Reply to How do you get over being ostracized from a group?

Forum Index » Off-Topic

Reply to "How do you get over being ostracized from a group?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]OP I’m confused though. Because it sounds like you had an issue with two people and made it a thing (maybe trying to exclude them first)...

I had a strange situation like this happen. Someone tried to do something to isolate me. I think it backfired because I made a lot more friends but it sort of broke up the clique/group mentality which might be a good thing. The woman apologized to me but I felt she was someone I couldn’t really trust. I came out ahead by every measure but it still hurt to lose someone who I thought was a friend and also to feel like anyone who I treated with kindness would target me for something like this. The situation with her involved a lot of lying and covering up and I still don’t know what her motive was. It felt like a weird queen bee power play. She was very close with me at the time, more so than others. I think it’s her loss but at the end of the day these situations can be really hurtful for a lot of people involved. Does it make sense to maybe talk to the one or two people about it, I often find both sides hurting and hoping for an overall better situation. I’m still pretty angry about it but I try really hard not to let it affect any of my other friendships. Don’t lump all 40 people in with the 4 or so that are involved. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics