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DH and I co-slept with DD until she was 3. 
I find it very immature of your husband to sleep elsewhere and find co-sleeping unnecessary and weird, and I'm very glad my husband was perfectly fine with co-sleeping.

Personally, I wouldn't want to space my kids so close anyway. Enjoy the time you have with this one first. Then, when you're both ready, transition him gently to his room, and think about another.
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Her husband is a deep sleeper and it is at safe for all of them to be in the same bed. He is doing what’s best for his child’s safety. That’s not immature. OP said he is a great sleeper and can sleep on his own so he doesn’t need any gentle transitions. OP is selfish. [/quote]

PP you replied to.

The baby does not need to be on DH's side of the bed, there are many ways to do this, including putting a co-sleeper or crib right up close to OP's side. Whatever works.

[b]And OP has a right to think about her happiness! If this is what makes her happy, then that's what she should do. Why do some men place their needs above their child's and expect their wives to agree? Misogyny, that's what it is.[/b]
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What!. The baby is fine, by OP's own words the baby does not need cosleeping.  Her DH has been very flexible in all of this, even moved to another room for the last 6months so that OP could keep up the cosleeping.

No one individuals happiness should come before the family as a whole and that is what OP is doing.[/quote]

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