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[quote=Anonymous]Happy wife happy life is a sexist trope that says a man / husband's duty is to put aside his own thoughts, feelings, and opinions and just always concede to keep his wife happy. It is the ultimate beta man or me nice guy where his only role is to be the 'yes dear' and 'whatever makes you happy dear'. It comes from a position of not being equals. Of men seeing women as needing a man who just does their bidding and focuses on their happiness at the expense of his own. It comes from a position of a man not having a right to happiness or a say in his own life. It treats women like they aren't capable of being equal partners and alway need to get their way. It is just a horrible attitude. And it is just as bad if a wife dedicates her life to making her husband happy, putting aside her needs, wants. Opinions and feelings in deference to his at all times. Either way it is an unhealthy and sexist dynamic.[/quote]
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