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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I apologize when I didn’t do anything wrong [b]sometimes[/b].
9.99999 times out of 10 it prompts my spouse to immediately apologize also.
Back to speaking back to loving caring sharing smiling etc.
Being right is nowhere near as satisfying as being happy.[/quote]

I'm curious about this. If you are always the apologize initiator, over time, don't you start to feel some hurt/resentment?[/quote]

Never said always - I said sometimes.
Good compromises help you and your partner grow together as a team. 
Making compromises fosters trust, accountability, consistency, and security in your relationship. 
A compromise shows that you have a common goal in mind: a healthy partnership, rather than your own singular happiness at heart.
So yes - I'll compromise sometimes and put pride aside and say two simple words to open up dialogue when lips are tight and my spouse compromises also sometimes.
Like I said being "right" is nowhere near as imperative to either of us as being together and there's nothing to resent if we're both making compromises.[/quote]

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