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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I am terrible at it. I’m a nice person but I am not charismatic, I do not light up a room when I walk in, and i am introverted. It’s a bad combo for making friends but once we're friends, we are friends for life.[/quote]

Same for me.  I am a bit awkward, and I hate asking questions of others because I fear I will be perceived as nosy.  [/quote]

Are either of you okay sharing about yourself? Sometimes that is easier than asking about someone else. You don’t have to share anything super personal.

By the way when I read your posts, I thought to myself “she is probably so much fun to hang out with once she is comfortable”. I have a lifelong friend from HS, I think the first part of the year was spent with her quietly observing, until we were placed on the same sports team and we really got to know each other. Since then we have laughed and cried together for over 25 years through graduations, children, marriage. Those friendships are one of a kind. Quality over quantity.

I think it is tougher when you are older because we don’t have things like that to let our guard down. That is why finding a hobby is usually suggested, it’s the closest thing to being forced into a social group with strangers where you know you have something in common. [/quote]

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