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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of people don't confront right away not because they aren't 99% certain what it means/what is going on, but because if the person cheating knows they have been caught they are more likely to delete evidence and/or put more effort into hiding new evidence.  The OP may not be as naive as some think, she may be clever.[/quote]
What the hell is so clever about allowing something potentially toxic to your relationship to continue?
"Oh wow she's so smart she sat back and just spied on his cyber-flirting for months without saying anything look how much evidence she has going into divorce proceedings."
Wait a minute...
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"Why didn't the bitch just confront him immediately and get him to clean his act up BEFORE shit got out of hand for months thus causing them to divorce?"
That's not clever that's dumb.
Now you on here posting a new thread about how stressed you are about the divorce and him cheating.

[b]YOU COULD HAVE STOPPED IT AND YOU DID NOTHING STUPID!!!![/b][/quote]

There's really no way to stop it nowadays. There are a million ways to hide online cheating. You confront them, they just find a way to hide it better. [/quote]
[b]So if there's no way to stop it then what's the harm in asking, "Hey...what the f**k is this?"
Yeah he may continue but he'll at least clean his shit up and hide it better.  [/b]
You let that shit go and don't say anything and he's gonna get more and more emboldened and shit will get outta hand.
Next thing you know he done got some chick pregnant.
Nah - cut that shit off immediately.
Turn the tv off close the door cross your arms and CONFRONT HIM.
Stop acting so scared.[/quote]

Most people *don't* want the cheater to hide it better. The entire point of waiting is so they'll screw up and you'll have evidence. Not for court, but because it's tough to divorce over one FB message, but a lot easier to divorce over an affair. Hell, I had an entire book full of good reasons why I left my ex, and everyone still reduced it to "I can't believe you're divorcing him because he did ONE THING that ONE TIME".

Plus I can't imagine being in a marriage where I confront him, he just hides it better, and I'm left worrying the rest of my life what he's up to. I'd rather bide my time and see what happens. [/quote]

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