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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's driving me nuts. For a starters I am a lesbian(somewhat femme presenting), so I am not interested in men AT ALL. I started a new job and there is a guy who is more extroverted than myself who I tend to talk to often, mostly because he talks a lot. I am an introvert and I definitely have easier conversations with extroverts since they keep the conversation going so to speak. Also, he seems to talking about many things that I enjoy like sports and many of the women on my team aren't into that. Anyway, a female coworker asked if I liked this guy and I was shocked! She said you're so nice to him and you two talk a lot. I mentioned that I'm just making conversation and we literally sit next to one another, so of course we talk a lot. Plus I am a nice person without any ulterior motives. There is no reason for me not to be. This literally happens with many guys who I connect with in a professional situation. In my last job, a coworker thought I was flirting with a (married) guy because I said that he looks nice with glasses(I wear them as well)! I don't understand. I feel like I should avoid men altogether. [/quote]

Most women are pretty cut throat with guys. If the woman is not interested in the man she treats him badly, is disrespectful, etc. If you get along with a male colleague other women assume you are making a move. They are just projected. I find men are easier to be friends with vs women. 
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