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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, let me say that being a stepmom has been one of the greatest joys of my life so I am clearly all in favor of dating a man with children. But in your case, for the child’s sake, you have to give your relationship more time and become far more serious. DH told his daughters about me long before they met me so they weren’t shocked. I didn’t meet them until we were unofficially engaged. And even then we took it slow and on their terms. [/quote] I agree in total. I love being a stepmom, adore my step kids, and love their relationships with my biological kids. But, yes, you need to wait to meet the child until you’re engaged. [/quote] Why would someone want to accept a marriage proposal without knowing what kind of relationship you’d have with the children? You’re marrying a family, not just a guy. I do agree that you need to be well along in a relationship before meeting the children. [/quote]
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