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[quote=Anonymous]I am not a sophomore or (HS) freshman parent.  But, I learned a lot parenting my (now) College Freshman through high school.

It is not to early to think about college, but it early to worry about it.  As for selective colleges, that can mean different things to different people.  If we are talking about Ivy or similar, it is a crap shoot for any child.  If we are talking about a step down, say (as a Virginian) UVA or W&M, there it is more predictable.

The problem with college applications is supply and demand.  The elite schools - HYPS, etc -- get about 10-20 applications for each slot.  And most of those have perfect to nearly perfect grades, test scores, recommendations, at EC's.    Unless your child does something extraordinary (e.g., wins national science fair; becomes a global spokesperson for something (e..g Greta Thunurg) or similar accomplishments, those schools are probably going to reject your student.  And it should not be a reflection on the student:  they are selective because they can be, not because the schools are that hard.

The best thing to do is understand the situation.  HS is more about maturing than learning.  Learning to work with others, advocating for yourself...etc.  Those will be challenging this year.  But, my guess is this will be over by next year.  As for material:  make sure they know the math.  Also critical thinking (in writing/analysis).  Don't worry about the grades, but make sure the work is done.  If they work hard, the grades will land where they land.[/quote]

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