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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. So in hindsight, I'm remembering he asked me to do some sort of BDSM test in the beginning of our relationship and we showed each other our results. The results showed that we were compatible. But I remember feeling like my results didn't accurately portray me, but didn't really discuss it because I thought it was no big deal. I thought nothing else of it, and didn't really understand that for some people this is a lifestyle that goes on inside and outside of the bedroom. I thought he was just bored and sending an entertaining quiz. So much more makes sense now that I'm putting this all together. He has referenced phrases from the test, and I was  not understanding their BDSM connotations. Still not sure about how I feel about all this, but he has at least brought this up. And I can now understand why he might think I'm into teasing, even when I'm not.

I really appreciate everyone's feedback. Thanks so much![/quote]

Regardless, in true, loving BDSM, you have a converation where you agree what will happen, set limits and hard limits, have a safe word, etc.

This is not ok that he is doing this without your explicit consent!!! This is abuse, not BDSM. [/quote]

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