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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - therapist suggests I befriend them to "humanize" them instead of idolizing from a distance, but it hasn't worked. They have their own friends in our town and have accepted our invites, and then gone off somewhere afterward. It felt stilted and unnatural. [/quote]

And what did your therapist say when you told her you wanted to move over this issue? [/quote]

That I should do what would make sense for our family. She didn't call it a bad idea. [/quote]

[b]Either your therapist is awful or you are only hearing what you want.[/b] But since you don't really seem open to hearing that you're idea is crazy, you should just be aware of the consequences.  Not dealing with your mental health issues and instead forcing your family to move is likely going to cause major issues in your marriage.  Pretending that your mental health issues don't impact your daughter is not helpful to her at all.  
But sure OP, move.  Disrupt your entire family.  I'm sure a new house will cure your issues.

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Nah  therapy is mostly nonsense / a sham unfortunately. OP'S experience is not unique.[/quote]

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