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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. All 3 kids are in single digits, but beyond diapers. After a full day I’m exhausted. I’ve had enough touching and at that point I don’t feel like being touched more is at all relaxing. Seems unnatural to force it and DH doesn’t seem to appreciate when I do it but I’m barely into it. [/quote]

DH here, you will hate me but I will be honest- you are doomed.  I did this for years, the constant chasing, her rejection, then I stopped chasing, we dwindled to once a month or less, then I cheated, and she caught me and we are in a really bad place.

In hindsight, I shouldn't have cheated.  It's going to be really, really hard to repair this now.

Here's the part I never understood:  how hard is it to carve out 30 minutes a week to be fully present with your DH sexually?  I mean, tell him to take kids to the park, put them to bed, clean the whole house if you need it.  Whatever it takes, he will jump through the hoop.  I did, until it became clear it was a chore.

Good luck.[/quote]

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