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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] .... No one is owed sex, [b]just like no one is owed anything[/b] [/quote]

For example, a sexless wife is not owed his fidelity. [/quote]

I strongly object to you deleting the rest of my post to try to make a point I said explicitly I was not making. If you'd like to respond to what I said, respond to it, but not not self select a line and make it seem like I said something I didn't. You could have made your point without distorting the meaning of mine.[/quote]

Sorry PP your post was excellent and I agree with almost everything you said. However it was soooo long and my point is for the contingent who scream (rightfully so) “nobody is entitled to sex” needs to also recognize the corollary “nobody is entitled to fidelity”.[/quote]

I disagree with you. When you get married you don't say I vow to always have sex with you, but you do make a vow to fidelity. I would say no one is entitled to have someone stay married to them if they are not meeting their end of the bargain. But as we learn in Kindergarten, two wrongs do not make a right. [/quote]

Depends on your vows.  Some “have and hold” and “forsake all others.”  [/quote]

It's a sin.  Adultery is a major sin in many religions...so if marriage was between two people in a religious ceremony of a religion that views adultery as a sin (as the majority do)---YES--STAYING monogamous to your partner was part of the deal.

Seriously, wtf?

I get some of the wishy-washy preachers you find on line, or homemade vows without a priest/preacher/rabbi, etc...but for centuries most marriages consider sex outside of the marriage a sin.  Maybe that doesn't matter to you, but it matters to a helluva lot of people.[/quote]

I am not in the camp of forcing people to have sex but if you are bringing religion into this, you are proving yourself wrong. Sex IS part of the entitlement in a religious marriage. Annulments can be obtained if you don't fulfill that part of the marriage... [/quote]

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