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[quote=Anonymous]OP you are spot on. Please keep your kids away from him as MUCH as possible and have them focus on their activities and relationships that are positive interactions with your family. Believe me, guys like this come a dime a dozen nowadays. And the previous poster who tried to lazily run a guilt trip on you is probably just like this guy or worse. They tend to validate behaviors of those like themselves. It’s is NOT your responsibility or the kids responsibility to include him in your lives. He is a grown man, not a child. Until he can fully and completely demonstrate that he can at the very least abide by the court order, let this post be the last bit of energy you feed him. Best advice, surround your kids with representations of GOOD fathers , wether it be though increasing their interactions with strong family members, community members, coaches, etc. Let their definition be defined by what they see others do. Don’t waste one more minute of your precious time catering to his drama. Hugs hun! -Signed, Abuse Survivor[/quote]
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