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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait. So you're barely reaching out but you want her to initiate more? Why not bring up the topic of a relationship and see where her head is? [/quote]

It's only been a few months.[/quote]

I'll be very honest OP. As a woman  my interest in you would be  close to zero.  Take some initiative. If you want to see and talk to her more call her,  ask for more dates.  Stop with the wishy washy  games.[/quote]

How is it a game, he sees her a few times a week?[/quote]

He just seems wishy-washy to me, like he's bean-counting. I guess I'm a bit old fashioned in that I like a man to be very direct with his interest, OP just seems lukewarm to me, it's been months of this texting a few dates a week, he wants more, but doesn't want initiate. That's just not what I'm looking for, and I would not see OP as someone with a serious interest, maybe someone I would pass the time with.[/quote]

Would you expect him to write you a love letter?  Or just have a relationship talk by now?[/quote]

Relationship talk. I don't need love letters. Like I said, OP doesn't seem like bad guy, Just wishy washy, like someonr I'd continue to go out with and have  a nice time, while I was still looking because I'd assume he's not that interested.

It could also be   the lady is not looking for anything serious and is totally fine with how things are,  though that still places the onus on OP to speak up if he wants more.[/quote]

Isn't two months premature for that?[/quote]

Assuming you are both 30 something, no it isn't too soon.[/quote]

Is the exclusive talk the same thing? Haven't done either[/quote]

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