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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good lord almighty!  Grow up.  Very few of us had wonderful childhoods.  I had an older sister who hated me and blamed me for our mother's death and she used to beat me all the time.

Holding grudges only hurt me so I forgave her and got her out of my life.  Again, GROW UP![/quote]

NP here, and I'm sorry you had a difficult sister. I don't see how this post is responsive to the OP. The OP asks for guidance on how to talk about family in ways that don't bring people down. Reading what you wrote sort of brought me down. I think your post would have that effect on many people. Not to criticize you for that! - It sounds like you have a really difficult family relationship and it's understandable how angry and unhappy you feel about it.[/quote]

Stop your sappy patronizing   I am not angry.  Once I was grown I understood that forgiving her was a  gift to myself.  I forgave her and got on with my life.  I rarely see her but I am close to her daughter.  I am just sick of people who dwell on their unhapppy childhoods.  Adults move on.[/quote]

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