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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be the one person in her family that does not comment about her weight or give her suggestions on how to lose it. You don’t need to process anything except how to be kind. [/quote] this. My sister is somewhere between 350-400 pounds. She knows she's obese, she has mirrors and she even works in healthcare. If she wants to try to lose then I am all for being supportive whether it's exercising with her, fixing healthy food when she's over here, or just listening to her struggles. But she doesn't need me to tell her she's fat, ever. She doesn't need me to have some sort of come to Jesus discussion, like I am her savior. I am not her enabler but I am also not here to shame her. It's 100% up to my sister to lose weight. There is nothing I can say or do to change her. It has to be with her. Same for your sister.[/quote]
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