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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe you know less about their situation that you think. People can be very good at keeping up appearances after situations change [/quote] OP here and nope. I knew someone would bring this up. Won’t get into details here but I know their financial situation is fine. And they’ve been at this for years, well before Covid and economic disaster.[/quote] Are you her financial advisor? Her accountant? Because unless you are intricately involved with their finances, you have no idea.[/quote] Nope, I do know. I know where she and DH work and exactly what they make. They do not have student loans or poor relatives or anything else. She shares pretty much everything with me. I do know what her husband can be an absolute prick and he is really controlling about finances and has no self awareness that would show him how crazy this whole thing is. I think she has Stockholm syndrome.[/quote] Are you in charge of writing their pay checks? If not you don't know. You think you know. You only know what she tells you, and what she tells you could be to impress you. If her husband is controlling, about finances then perhaps you should be a little more understanding to your friend instead of trying to get her dragged on the internet.[/quote]
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