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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We were friends with another couple through our kids, we each have three kids the same age and go to the same camp.

The mom is definitely a mean girl but also very fake, over the winter I reached out to her a few times and didn’t hear back, which I assumed was just Covid insanity related. Turns out she and her husband are totally fading us, her DH avoids us and will barely say hello, she says hi but also we’ve heard from others that she’s trash talking us.

Today we were at an event for the kids and she and her friends were huddled in a corner and it was clear they were talking about us. 
Also another mom had confirmed this last month.

We’ve no idea why they’re being like this, though they have a bunch of issues and so it’s also not a surprise, it’s a bit of a relief actually because she’s a drama queen. But it’s hard to know how to act at camp, especially as they’ve brought other moms into it. Also it makes me sad as all the parents socialize with the kids so we can tell our kids are being excluded from stuff.

WWYD?[/quote]

What kind of trash talking?  Specifically?  Is she making stuff up?[/quote]

OP I don’t know why she’s pulled back or what exactly she’s saying about us. There’s another mom I’ve known for years who just told me to watch my back with her. There’s nothing I would have done or said about her, but she was saying stuff that was really mean spirited about someone else. I told her we didn’t know the full story so shouldn’t judge and she was really angry about that. [/quote]

I continue to be bewildered why you remain engaged with this. Detach. Move on. You cannot control others. It doesn’t matter why she has decided you aren’t worthy anymore. Eventually she’ll get hers. Stop letting her live rent free in your head.[/quote]

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