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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband does this sometimes, usually as others have described, in recapping things that he recalls have transpired during a disagreement. I think it's his way of tracking the facts, but it is super annoying and comes off as kind of autistic (I'm not using that term in a medical or PC way so please forgive) and like he's trying to keep score. I try to ignore it if it comes up now- I've taken the ignore tactic with a lot of his verbal ADD behavior- going on about one thing for an excessive period of time primarily. Now I just change the topic to something that needs to be addressed immediately and then end the interaction by leaving the room and letting him close whatever circle he needs to in his head. I don't know that it changes the behavior, but it separates me from it, which I think is the most important thing. [/quote] Amen. Disassociate, fast.[/quote]
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