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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to tell her. Make her swear to keep it a secret.[/quote]

I would tell her if I thought she could keep it a secret but I know she wouldn’t be able to. She’s very much a millennial and not mature enough yet. [/quote]

Why do you have to keep it a secret?[/quote]

It's not something I want the world to know. It's private. [/quote]Are you able to articulate why you want to keep it private? Would you be embarrassed if it were public?  Why?  If you would be embarrassed, maybe you want to think about whether it's worth it to go public and endure the embarrassment so you no longer have to expend energy hiding it.[/quote]

I find it so curious that people are trying to therapy the OP who was in fact quite clear and firm that she does not want to discuss her plastic surgery. You aren't really asking her to articular her reasons, you're trying to argue her out of it, and she didn't ask that question at all.  The question you ought to be asking of the OP's sister is "are you able to articulate why you need to be as attractive as your sister? Why do you labor under the perception of equality that doesn't exist, anywhere?"[/quote]

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