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[quote=Anonymous]OP- I had a similar situation with a very close friend who has been trying to get pregnant for a couple years and shared with me about a traumatic miscarriage she had toward the end of her first trimester of pregnancy last fall. I found out I was pregnant (FTM) around the December holidays. We text pretty regularly, so when I was about 16 weeks or so, we were texting and I just bit the bullet and texted something like "Wanted to let you know I'm pregnant. About 16 weeks." She called me right away and was like "that's not something you text!" and was incredibly warm and lovely about it. I was VERY nervous about doing it I have to say. I love this friend dearly, she would be an incredible mother, and I felt guilt because I got pregnant quickly and especially earlier in the pregnancy, felt kind of ambivalent and nervous about it. I couldn't help thinking she deserves this more, she wants it more, it's not fair. I totally underestimated her response. Throughout my pregnancy, we've kept texting normally, sometimes about pregnancy, the fertility treatment she's trying, and then just normal life stuff. [/quote]

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