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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I think she told me instead of telling bio dad because I'm the one who initiates contact. I text and call just about every day and even am planning to move to their city to have a closer relationship. She says she would be more understanding if I were a kid but I'm in my mid-30s and should be mindful of boundaries such as not assuming that I can stay at their place for a month just because I'm his bio daughter. She hints that I am the one who has been driving this relationship and that neither of them have an obligation towards me. That is what I am sad about. [/quote]

Is this really OP?  Because if so, you withheld a LOT of important information.  You seem like an opportunist or a stalker based on what you just wrote, with a big heaping of entitlement.  I was on your side until you dropped this doozy.[/quote]

OP sounds unhinged and it's why the wife is wary of her. Like I said, the guy never had a relationship with her. Another man knowingly raised her as his own and now she's seeking out the man who did father her but that is just inappropriate. It's disrespectful to her stepdad. Bio dad just provided sperm and so what obligation does he have toward her at her age? [/quote]

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