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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I think she told me instead of telling bio dad because I'm the one who initiates contact. I text and call just about every day and even am planning to move to their city to have a closer relationship. She says she would be more understanding if I were a kid but I'm in my mid-30s and should be mindful of boundaries such as not assuming that I can stay at their place for a month just because I'm his bio daughter. She hints that I am the one who has been driving this relationship and that neither of them have an obligation towards me. That is what I am sad about. [/quote]

You are an adult and need to move on. 30+ year olds don’t move in with someone that is essentially a stranger regardless of the biology. He didn’t raise you, he didn’t have partial custody of you, he didn’t have any relationship with you. He was basically a sperm donor and now your wanting to live with him for a month and move close to him and text him daily.

You need to take time to grieve the loss of your legal father, the man that raised you from birth. Please make an appt with a therapist and leave the sperm donor couple alone.

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