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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If anything happens, it’s always “you said this, had this look, you always, you do this when you’re” I truly don’t know how to explain it but I feel like he’s narrating situations and events. It drives me nuts. I can’t seem to articulate it. Anyone know what I mean?[/quote]

It could be autism. HFA or aspies rely on their memorized patterns or formulae or “rules” to decide what to say or how to behave in a situation. 
So they’d pull up some archive in their head of what once happened, State it or do it, and move on. No common sense or judgment applied, just whatever happened last time must be it!  Gawd forbid you ask WTF happened, you will get a rant and lecture about barely tangential nonsense. Drives you insane trying to even have a back and forth convo. Which of course is impossible for them to actually instinctually have. [/quote]

Could be it.  He truly doesn’t know what to do so he guesses at what you want or would do, this when asked, blames you! [/quote]

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