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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hide it. I know it’s your third, but can you hide it? Then tell her much closer to the due date via email. [/quote]

This is bad advice.  I would be more hurt if my good friend didn't tell me.  And it is nothing that op did that should be shameful.    Op didn't have choose to have a third kid to hurt anyone  I  understand being kind and respectful but, I think it is getting ridiculous.  Op is allowed to feel joy and happiness and yes even show sonograms pictures if she choose on her Facebook!

My Sister in law experienced a still birth while I was pregnant.  At the funeral for the baby she asked me if I was going to have another child.  Are you telling me I should have lied and said no?  Was it painful for her   Of course  But, I didn't gloat and say ha ha i'm pregnant!    I felt terrible for her and her husband!  I just answered I'm pregnant.

I know I am going to get flack but, I can handle it  And yes, I am very close with my sister in law.  [/quote]

I’m sorry, am I understanding this right? You announced your pregnancy to your SIL at her own baby’s funeral? WTF? [/quote]

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