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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I have two kids - a 2.5 year old and a 9 month old. Our plan was to have two kids and then my husband would get a vasectomy, but now we are unsure if we should make a permanent change. We have always wanted to kids, but now we ( mostly my husband) are considering having a third. I think we are mostly still only having two kids, but I think the option to have another would be nice. I'm 39 ( turning 40 in May) ) and had kids at 37 and 39. We both work full-time and pay almost $40k a year in childcare costs. We can afford a third child, but not having a third will mean more flexible income for us. We live in a 3bed 2 bath condo in the city, and our plan is to move to the suburbs once our oldest is ready for school. Having a third will likely make us move sooner for more room. We have two fairly easy kids that are good sleepers ( with help of sleep training), but that doesn't mean the third will easy. I don't know if we should wait on the vasectomy or rule out a third child and do it. [/quote]

Enjoy your babies now and stop at two.  You don't need three and should be very grateful you have two.[/quote]

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