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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My stepmother iced us out of my father’s life. We are never included for holidays. All of our photos were taken down. He refused to do a will because they in a state where she will inherit everything. He spends all his time with her grown children. It’s like a Lifetime movie. [/quote]

+1  This happened to me too.  I haven't even seen my dad in over 10 years.  His choice.  He has no interest in me or my family, or my siblings.  He is fully engaged as a grandfther with her family, though.

Unfortunately my mom died young so I essentially lost both parents.

I hate my dad's wife and wish nothing but ill on her.  I don't care how this sounds.  It seems so unfair that my beloved mother got sick and died, and then this terrible woman was able to then swoop in, push out my mom's kids, and live a life of joy with my dad.  Yes, he's weak, but I hate her more for exploiting this.  My mom always supported my dad and made him strong, and would have been horrified at what my dad turned into after she died, and how quickly he moved on/in with this woman, and the way he rejected his children.

Women who do this are pathetic.   [/quote]

It is your fathers responsibility to maintain a relationship with you, not his wife’s. You are like parents who blame their daughter in law because their son doesn’t call them enough.[/quote]

You’re like a wife who is more upset at the mistress when it was in fact your husband who initiated the affair.

You don’t have to like your step mother, but you can’t blame your father’s actions (or lack of actions) on her. Your father is a grown adult.  [/quote]

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