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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married 10 years and no sex since Jan. And that was boring and not good. I know DH isn’t cheating but between his ED, insecurity and lack of imagination I don’t care. However we are great parents and friends and truly “business” partners. I would never blow up my family for lack of sex. Hell cheating would be more honorable than making my kids suffer for my husbands issues. [/quote]

Wait until the sexlessness goes for years. Had a dry spell of 3 years then sex one time, dry spell for 4 years, then one attempt at sex and never again. I
Used to say what you did when it first became sexless. This started at the start of my marriage though and all of this sexlessness was in my 30s. In my 40s now and divorced. There were other issues but this key one made me leave eventually. It was not a marriage. No sex since Jan is not that awful. Wait until you start counting years—you may change your mind.[/quote]

Both of us are in our mid 60’s and we have sex at least once a week. From the data previously posted about 35% of couples our age have sex weekly or a few times a month. I’m happy to be in that group. I’m sure my husband would like it more but I do my best to make the one time a week very enjoyable. [/quote]

Sex once a week is fine for almost any age. My post was about marriages being completely sexless for years. I am not why you responded to my post. I was commenting to the poster who said no sex since January and I said it was not that bad. Once a week is not close to sexless. Even once a month is okay. I was talking about YEARS. (and I was in my 30s). I would love once a week in my 60s. [/quote]

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