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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been divorced for over a year, and was separated for two years before that. I am completely “over” my ex and ready to start dating. I am looking for an LTR with the right person (also in their 50s).

I’ve been getting quizzed a lot about “where I am” and “what I’m looking for”.[b] A lot of times when I’ve been chatting for a while and things seem to be going well,[/b] the temperature drops sharply when I say I’ve been divorced for “only” a year. I get it, they want to make sure I’m not still entangled with my ex. But what am I supposed to do, have a bunch of short-term flings before “they” decide I’m ready for an LTR? Am I only going to get dates with other “not divorced long enough” people?[/quote]

Understand with on line dating there is very low barriers to entry.  Married today.  Divorced tomorrow. Dating profile day after tomorrow.

The same holds true with boyfriends and girlfriends.  Many people get back with former boyfriends and girlfriends after you've invested 6 months or so in the relationship.[/quote]

Do not waste your time "chatting for awhile". You have three texts back and forth.  If guy does not ask you out for coffee after 3 texts move on.  Don't waste your time chatting indefinitely with some random dude.

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