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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been divorced for over a year, and was separated for two years before that. I am completely “over” my ex and ready to start dating. I am looking for an LTR with the right person (also in their 50s).

I’ve been getting quizzed a lot about “where I am” and “what I’m looking for”. A lot of times when I’ve been chatting for a while and things seem to be going well, the temperature drops sharply when I say I’ve been divorced for “only” a year. I get it, they want to make sure I’m not still entangled with my ex. But what am I supposed to do, have a bunch of short-term flings before “they” decide I’m ready for an LTR? Am I only going to get dates with other “not divorced long enough” people?[/quote]

Perhaps stop using the word "only".  Also, instead of stating you've been divorced for a year say you've been divorced for three years.  It is common to include the years of separation.  Three sounds much longer than one.  And...don't use "only". [/quote]

Do not lie [/quote]

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