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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had sex 3 x per week, dated weekly thanks to a nanny, did adult get always 2x / year.

Very passionate together, loved each other’s company, got along with family, intellectually stimulating conversation.

But he cheated and he is moving out.[/quote]

I’m in the immediate aftermath of an identical situation.  Together 24 years, married almost 22.  Wtf?  I am baffled and he is doing everything to hold on and severely remorseful.  How long were you married?  It’s baffling to me.  He is chasing me hard and doing everything to try for forgiveness.

How old are your kids?[/quote]

Dated 6 years (met when 24). Married 20 years when it happened. Kids were in middle and high school. He moved to the nanny suite so the kids didn't have to deal with 2 houses. He did intense, intense therapy (3x a week for 2-3 years). Diagnosed with PTSD... but he is moving out now the youngest is going to college. He also chased me hard and our family therapist basically begged me to forgive him. I forgave him but I'm not sleeping with a cheater. [/quote]

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