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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Didn't you get training in non-judgmental interactions before volunteering? Your conversations are not at all appropriate. I'm also surprised that letting the girl sleep over is allowed. [/quote]

Yes we are trained to look for abuse and potentially abusive situations.  I feel this is a [b]potential situation 100%!  It’s just a matter of time.[/b] As far as sleep overs the mom would happily let her stay with me 90% of the time!  She even wanted to name me as the child’s Legal guardian if something happened to her.  [/quote]

Your manager, if s/he were a mandated reporter and trusted you, would have to report it as you have suspicions of abuse. Right? Is s/he not a mandated reporter? If not, what kind of program is this? And why aren't you mandated? What is your degree in?

A formerly incarcerated person is considered to have paid their debt to society. For you to judge a "potential situation" on past criminal status is wrong.

The mother wanted to name you as guardian in her will. What's the status of that? [/quote]

I’m really starting to believe all the [b] DC people are a bunch of moronic white trash just like what I’m dealing with right now ![/b]!  People like you can bring in the next rapist murderer into your homes with your children once they are released !! Because after all they have served their time ..  Puke!!  [/quote]

I don't live in DC. I see you provided no answers, but instead, some valuable insight as to your mindset. I am not surprised your manager does not take you seriously.[/quote]

FYI [b]my manager is very understanding of my concerns[/b] and  knows all the crap I’ve had to deal with in the last 5 yrs! She actually thinks I have been very patient with the poor decisions being made by this individual. She wants me safe and has told me I can’t fix this and knows how helpless I feel.  [b]She recommends I leave the program physically and move to just phone calls and texts.[/b] She also thanked me for the years of trying to make a difference in this child’s life and hopes she will not go down the wrong path.  Unfortunately I’m not very hopeful. [/quote]

I can see why she wants you to leave the program. The calls and texts will decrease over time. 
I hope you find a job field for which you are better suited.[/quote]

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