Reply to Family thinks getting remarried will screw up my kid

Forum Index » Parenting -- Special Concerns

Reply to "Family thinks getting remarried will screw up my kid"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I won't let my kid visit your house if you are living with someone who is not your husband.  [/b]Either make a commitment or don't.[/quote]

Why not?[/quote]

NP, but maybe this is a values standard that she has that she does not want to compromise on. And by letting her daughter visit the home, she may feel she is condoning the arrangement of two people co-habitating outside of marriage, which she does not want to do. ??

You don't have to agree with the PP's stance on this. But people have all kinds of rules like this internally. Some won't let their kids go to a home where the person has guns (citing safety issue), some won't let their kids go to a home where the parents have alcohol (maybe they just disapprove of drinking or maybe they don't trust them to lock the liquor cabinet?), some won't let their kids go to a home of people who voted for Hilary...or Trump! LOL. It's not really your business. I don't let my kid spend the night at a friend's house even if the parents are married. (overcautious and I've seen too much in social services to ignore what I've seen. You just don't know what goes on behind closed doors in a seemingly perfect family.)[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics