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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's infatuation. [/quote]

Don't do anything stupid or embarrassing. Your fantasies of him are just that fantasies, where you have built him up to be the perfect being, odds are really high he is nothing like that in  a real life relationship.

I'm most disturbed that you are daydreaming about him as a stepparent, that's a bit over the line for me , and goes beyond harmless crush territory.

You need to start redirecting your thoughts and stop spending so much time on this fantasy of yours.[/quote]

This. He doesn’t want to step-parent your kids, OP.
Just enjoy your fantasy and even imagine your DH is him and flirt with your DH the way you probably were with this guy! (Ask him questions and listen for the answer as though you are interested and wanting to learn from him, which is prob the way you were acting with the single guy)  Dial it waaay back in your mind though, OP. He’d prob be up for a couple of nights of this and prob even thinks you’re attractive and interesting in a way that your husband has not paid attention to you in a while, but it’s another thing entirely to fantasize that he’s up for stepping into your messy life.[/quote]

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