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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I  will  lookup limerance and surviving infidelity.

In my conversations with this person I learned that he dated someone for 7 or 8 years who he wanted to marry, but she allegedly didn’t want to take that step because she said he works/ed too much. He brought that up on his own in those conversations, though I don’t remember precisely how it came up. Obviously that is his retelling and could be completely false or at least exaggerated in his own mind.

I have imagined him in the unavoidable longterm situations that have been suggested like farting, having an argument, working too much (see above), etc. That is how my brain went to the “stepparent” thing — I was trying to play out how tough long term situations would be if this actually went much further. I’ve tried to imagine how it would be if DH and I split up and how it would be trying to coparent the kids separately, etc. Of course I fully recognize it’s hard to really picture those things when you haven’t been in those situations. [/quote]

Read the blogs and comments on 'betrayed wives clubs'.  Awful.  You would think nobody would cheat on their partner if they saw the absolute devastation it does to their spouse and kids.

SELFISH!!!!!!![/quote]

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