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Reply to "I’m unsure if my SO will be a good parent"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should listen to your gut, but you need to tell us what those red flags are. Is she anxious? Is she angry? is she selfish? is she lazy? Is she impatient? Does she hit the dog? What is it that is making you think she wouldn't be a good parent?[/quote] My issue is that she’s not very affectionate.[/quote] Not affectionate how?[/quote] She’s not the type to hug, randomly say I love you, come up and kiss me, etc.[/quote] I was raised by emotionally neglectful parents, so I am not a lovey dovey type person. But surprise! I am very affectionate with my kids. I would worry more about 1) emotional stability 2) stress tolerance 2) follow-through/dependability[/quote] The PP nailed it. My ILs are lovey dovey and mentally ill, lying and not reliable. [/quote]
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