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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so angry and resentful and thinking this is the end of our marriage. I’ve tried to get passed it but it’s unbelievable that after two very difficult pregnancies he expects me to be the one to have surgery and take responsibility. I’ve had an IUD intermittently for 15 years and I’m done with hormones altogether. I don’t know how to get passed this...[/quote]

His body, his choice. i'm a woman btw. I would never force my husband to do anything to his body, especially something that came with risks. He shouldn't be forcing you, either. There are options non-hormonal, non-surgical options -- condoms, diaphragm, the sponge (is that still a thing?), timing. And, eventually, you will go through menopause and it will be over.[/quote]

The sponge and diaphragms both have spermicide, which is absolutely terrible for a woman’s health. Not a safe option.

OP, what does he think is the solution? Has he actually had the balls (hah) to suggest that you have surgery or go on hormonal birth control because he doesn’t want to be bothered? I’m really curious as to what he thinks the solution is, and why he is comfortable pushing all the responsibility on you.

I completely agree that no one should be forced to have any surgical procedure, and then includes vasectomy. His body, his choice. But it’s time for him to take responsibility and wear condoms faithfully then. Otherwise he’s just spoiled man child who wants you to take the hit for his convenience and pleasure. [/quote]

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