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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You want her to target someone else?! You... are not a decent person, as PP has said. Like attracts like. Cut her off and look deep within yourself to see why you allowed a person like this in your life, knowing she treats other people extremely badly. When someone shows you who they are, believe them - if they mistreat others, this is an indication of their character and the behaviors will eventually be directed towards you.  [/quote]

You’re taking it too literally. Point is that this person always target someone and wants them to move on. [/quote]

Uh, try reading the OP's original post again.

Specifically, where she says "She has a history of doing this to one person at a time and generally moves on after about 6-12m."

The only way the OP would know this is if she was FRIENDS with this person all throughout the times that she was harassing other people.

She was FRIENDS with her the entire time, but now that it's OP in that seat she doesn't like it too much.

I can't believe how much sympathy you people have for someone who was friends with a stalker/bully for years and clearly didn't have a problem with her friends behavior. 
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OP here.

1. I didn't get your response or anyone's removed
2. I agree with you. [b]I learned the hard way that someone who bullies and treats others badly will eventually do that to you.[/b] 100% I guess it is easy to look the other way when it isn't happening to you which I did for years, assuming we were too close for that to happen to me. [/quote]

OP, if you grew up in a good family, it is sometimes harder to learn this is your older years.  Now you know! 
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