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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you haven't really talked to him about it, but if you're going to get married one day, this is something you need to just talk about.

So no pressure be like, 'Hey I've been thinking about our future and I just wanted to talk about it. Do you think this is moving towards something serious and we might want to move in together sometime in the next couple of years? If so, I just want to make sure we're on the same page. I think I'm past living with a bunch of roommates. No pressure, we don't need to make decisions tomorrow, but I just want you to know how I feel about it so we can decide if we're compatible in this way. I'm not saying I'd expect you to move or anything, but I feel like our lifestyles are so different right now and have been wondering how we would combine them in a way where we'd both be happy, what do you think?"

People dance around conversations and then no one ever expresses themselves properly. You don't have to be aggressive or demanding or mean about it, but have a conversation. You'll feel better afterward for at least knowing where you stand. If he's someone you're going to be with forever, this should be one of the easier conversations/compromises you negotiate. [/quote]

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